First, I cannot give you 100%-guaranteed solution. What I say here is my opinion so if you disagree, then that's where it ends. We may start a discussion but arguing is not my style. =)
Have you ever been cheated on? If you have or know someone this has happened to, it's probably because of one of these two reasons: she was with a jerk who has insecurities or she brought it upon herself. As a woman, you could prevent your man from cheating. First you have to always look your best. I do not care if you have kids or you are working too many hours. You willingly got married and took on that responsibility- to remain aesthetically pleasing for your man. Since you are married to him anyways and he is the father of your kids, make sure he shares the parental duties with you. Tell him that if he wants to keep enjoying your beauty then he better give you time to maintain it. Next, work it! Brush up on your bed skills by visiting adult stores and by reading appropriate magazines. Granted that buying gadgets and tools could be hefty, just remember though that it's an investment for your marriage. You could work on the magazine expenses by splitting the cost with your friends and passing the magazines around after they are read. Try different sexual positions. I do not think there's a man who could refuse kinkyness. Put some mirrors on your ceiling or walls. Make him look at you when you're working it. He has to continuously appreciate your beauty so he will think twice before cheating. If the kids are not around, tell him you want to go somewhere but once you're both in the car, surprise him by doing things IN the car. Role play on a regular basis. Draw lots on what roles each person you will play. You don't need costumes every single time because you could always improvise. Have him watch his football game and work on him every commercial break. You could even pose a challenge for yourself and see if he will quit the game and focus on you instead. Now if he chooses the game don't be upset and dramatic. Just remember that you are doing this to please him. Now don't think this is all about you doing the work. You also have to tell your man what tickles your fancy. If he is not hitting it right, guide him. Do not be a control freak though. If you know your body you could always angle yourself where he would hardly miss it. Whisper sexy words to him and tell him how you enjoy his skills. Stoke his ego and guaranteed you will stroke your way to a satisfied sexual relationship. Finally, do not be always available. Have your own group of friends and let him have his. You want him to wonder where you are and miss you when you're not around. Dress nice before you head out but give him that long sexy kiss and say that when you come back, he might get lucky if he's behaved. If, for whatever reason, your man still cheats - do yourself a favor and leave the bastard. If he's still not satisfied with everything you do then he's either a jackass or gay!
*Alexia S.
Stop complaining about how your boyfriend leaves the toilet up in the bathroom. You always nag about how rude and impolite he is for doing this when he knows you use the bathroom too. Is it "eeeew" or "yuck?" Perhaps lacking proper manners? If you are nodding, you need to slap yourself and get over it. Is it really always about you? Imagine your boyfriend unzipping his pants and getting ready to pee... then as soon as he is about to release, he realizes that you left the toilet seat DOWN. Do you know how it is hard for them to aim? There he is wondering why you did not have the nerve to put the toilet seat up not to mention how rude and impolite you are. On second thought, has your boyfriend ever nagged you about this? If I may guess whenever this happens, your boyfriend simply pulls that seat up and releases the same way he has always planned. No nagging. No comments. After all, it's just a toilet seat! Next time you're in your boyfriend's house, leave the seat up for him after you use it. Then perhaps leave a note saying "I understand. You like it this way." Who knows - maybe next time he uses it, he will remember to return the favor and consider you as well.
*Alexia S.
First, I cannot give you 100%-guaranteed solution. What I say here is my opinion so if you disagree, then that's where it ends. We may start a discussion but arguing is not my style. =)
Stop complaining about how your boyfriend leaves the toilet up in the bathroom. You always nag about how rude and impolite he is for doing this when he knows you use the bathroom too. Is it "eeeew" or "yuck?" Perhaps lacking proper manners? If you are nodding, you need to slap yourself and get over it. Is it really always about you? Imagine your boyfriend unzipping his pants and getting ready to pee... then as soon as he is about to release, he realizes that you left the toilet seat DOWN. Do you know how it is hard for them to aim? There he is wondering why you did not have the nerve to put the toilet seat up not to mention how rude and impolite you are. On second thought, has your boyfriend ever nagged you about this? If I may guess whenever this happens, your boyfriend simply pulls that seat up and releases the same way he has always planned. No nagging. No comments. After all, it's just a toilet seat! Next time you're in your boyfriend's house, leave the seat up for him after you use it. Then perhaps leave a note saying "I understand. You like it this way." Who knows - maybe next time he uses it, he will remember to return the favor and consider you as well.